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Maternl©
"On journey long, journey full, I strive to heal, diminish fear;
making real, priceless promises of life each day, each year;
and I yearn . . ."


Introduction
Maternl shares the human dimensions of caring in an age of advancing medical technologies.

Maternl is enabled by the agents of our humanity, empowered by our words, our language and ancestral songs of promise to heal when we cannot cure; the ultimate challenge to the bond between patient and doctor.

Maternl recognizes and addresses the care, attention and empathies required when parents experience the loss of a child through miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal deaths.

Maternl reflects my career as a physician, an obstetrician, and introduces my personal philosophy and original poetry which above all enables me to ask why even when we already understand how. Poetry permits me as a doctor of medicine, witness to the frailties of our humanity, to abet healing through the very core of what makes us human; our language and our personal emotions.

I believe that we who have taken the "Oath" to practice our sacred profession of medicine and we who have committed ourselves to the healing arts must do so with the imperative to respect the sanctity of health for all those we treat - with a sense of high privilege-for they are the flesh and blood and souls of our humanity - past, present and future - and we, by our choice, their guardians. Here at Maternl, I, through my writings, poems, personal thoughts and unique programs strive to promote these tenets.

Michael R Berman MD MBI FACOG
January 20, 2026



Request and Receive a Personalized Poem
Maternl is founded on a model of care I have practiced throughout my career; the use of language to help the grieving and healing process: words we write, words we read, and words we say and hear to serve as an invaluable source of solace and hope. I believe our words are songs from our hearts: "songs of hope and songs for hope." I have written and continue to write words and thoughts in letters of condolence when my patients have experienced a pregnancy, newborn or infant loss and include a personalized, original poem which I either send to them and / or at their memorial services / funerals. This program permts you to obtain a personalized, original poem to memorialize, honor or pay tribute




Join an Enduring Community for Pregnancy and Newborn Losses
A place and community for comfort, empathy, support and hope if you should experience a miscarriage, stillbirth or newborn death including more original writings, poems, sharing and bereavement resources and excerpts from my book: Parenthood Lost.



Read Original Poetry and Writings
A selection from my collection of original poems writen for and dedicated to my patients to comfort at times of loss along with other essays, writings and thoughts.



Ephemeris Project- A place for Students and House Staff to share narrative stories
Primarily for health professional students and housestaff, here you may contribute your thoughts as you learn and experience the human aspects of caring. All information entered is anonymous unless you wish to identify your self in your comments. You will also find current periodic additions to my portfolio of poems, essays, citations and other writings to further express philosphies, concerns and elations.



GetCare (Get the Healthcare You Deserve)
Through this portal, GetCare provides the user with easy access to a database of geographic-specific Federally personalized letter of introduction for the user to the health care facility they select as one who needs help with their care, much like patients have a letters of referral to a doctor from another doctor. By having this introduction to prenatal care services GetCare addresses the lack of an advocate / provider, the lack of awareness of local healthcare facilities offering maternal and child health care services including prenatal care, a lack of understanding of the need for pre-natal care, albeit early care, the late diagnosis, recognition and acceptance of ones pregnancy, embarrassment and denial, and perhaps, shame, diminished self worth and dignity and a feeling of isolation without a place or professional to turn to for immediate care, counseling and accompanying advocacy. The letter itself is not a referral but an introduction. This service can be easily linked to local and regional social services so families in need can have their support as well.



My personal Blog of updated thoughts, poems and news
Here you will fnd my most recent contributions as I continue to write and share with my readers and students.